Settle this dispute please…?
*I am physically disabled. I was paralyzed for two years, and I am in a lot of pain*
OK, I met someone online, on a dating site. They offered to take me on a road trip to the coast of Oregon. I told them that I had no money except $10. They told me this was no problem because they had just got their taxes back. I was VERY adamant about telling them that I had no cash to contribute. They insisted on taking me. I told them flat out in no uncertain terms that I could not contribute. I am repeating this part because it is important.
Their offer was this: I will come pick you up, take you to dinner, we will sleep, get up, and then go to the coast of Oregon.
I told her that I was down for a road trip but there was no way that I could go because I had no cash. She was very clear that she would pay for the trip. this was solidly established because I have no desire to take advantage of anyone.
She came and got me and we got Thai food. Then we went to her house.
We ended up having sex. I pushed myself physically while sleeping with her to the point of making myself physically ill. We had sex multiple times.
In the morning I woke up ridiculously sick. I told her that I needed to take a bath or I would be sick for the whole day. She explained that she understood this because her father was the same way. She lived in a trailer and the only form of hot bath was an inflatable hot tub that had to be prepared before use.
I told her I was grotesquely ill and that I needed to get into the hot water immediately. She was well aware that if I didn’t get in that I would be essentially crippled for the rest of the day. So, she proceeded to get up and cook breakfast for the next hour and just let me lie there in pain. Asa result I ended up almost physically incapacitated for the rest of the day.
We ate breakfast, and I asked her. “Are we going to go on the road trip?” She said, “We woke up too late.” So, we never went, which was the only reason I went to begin with.
So, now I am stranded 50 miles from home, 3 miles from a store. I have no way to get to this store. I needed a cigarette. I asked her to take me to the store so I could get cigarettes. She didn’t. I was stuck. However, her father, who lived next door had just got several cartons in the mail. So, since I could not get out to get my own, I asked for ONE cigarette. ONE, that’s it. She treated me like I was the rudest human on Earth for asking this question.
So, I sat there ALL day stuck at this persons house, repeatedly sleeping with her whenever she wanted, as much as I was physically capable of. I eventually could even have sex with anymore because I couldn’t freaking move.
The evening came. I was hungry. I told her I was hungry. She did not offer me any food, and would not take me to the store. Then, she looked at me and said, “do you want some garlic toast?” I said, “yes”
I told her I was starving. She had cupboards full of food but had not offered me anything but some toast. I finally got up after feeling pushed around and grabbed the first food I could find: a bag of Doritos–which could have bought myself if she would have taken me to the store. I grabbed them and she said, “Aren’t you going to ask?” I said, “So, I don’t have to ask to cum on your face but I have to ask for some chips?” She said, “You can only have a couple.” I felt like a prisoner.
Then she came in with the garlic toast. However, she had made a full dinner for herself. She sat and ate Potato soup, drank a “boutique” soda, right in front of me. She sat and ate fucking dinner in front of me, and I hade 3 pieces of burnt garlic toast.
Then, I was finally fed up and asked her to take me home. I gave to her physically almost beyond my capacity, she was pushy and controlling–she handed me a sleeve of movies to pick one and then after I looked through them she said “we are watching this,” She refused to allow me to go to the store so I could buy my own food and cigarettes with my last $10, she ate fucking dinner inf front of me, screwed me on the road trip, and then had the nerve to treat me like I was a mooch.
I did everything I possibly could to take care of myself in this situation and she as well aware when she came and got me that I only had $10 to my name. I just went home and never called her again.
End if story. Nope. Now several days later she is accusing me of taking advantage of her, and criticizing me for not giving her my last $10, and saying that it was rude to just take 15 Doritos and ONE cigarette.
I don’t want your opinion of my lifestyle but I want someone to read this and tell me how I took advantage of this person. I did EVERYTHING in my power to establish my financial situation and pay for my own requests beyond her offer. She completely refused to allow me to take care of myself and who I finally did stick up for myself I was selfish.
Somebody please
stick up for me…
I realize now what my mistakes were. I’m trying to fix the situation
by making better choices. The whole thing was just hurtful and sad, and I feel very cheap and
stupid for allowing myself to get in this situation.

Usedhottubsstore answers:
To me it seems that you allowed yourself to be taken advantage of and that you did not stand up for yourself or asserted yourself until way late in the experience.
Since you made your financial condition clear to this person I do not see how she can feel or claim to have somehow been deceived by you. Maybe she has mental issues (which to me is a given since, after all, who meets a person on the internet and then takes them home and has sex with them).
I think you need to ask yourself: why do you care what this person thinks of you? It’s not like you are ever going to see her or be with her again. So who cares?
Lastly, if it had been me, I would have just took the food from her and if she had said something about it, I would have smacked her hard in the face. She obviously felt that it was acceptable to treat you like sh!t, so maybe you were giving off some kind of vibe which allowed her to think that this kind of behavior was okay.
Look to yourself and think about how others may perceive you. Some people are just natural victims.

Carol asks…
The second edition polls?
this is the second of T’s morbid polls, if you enjoy add as fan or contact to get the next batches
1. your home is invaded by three mexican mafia members they explain to you that they need 3 kidneys and a liver to sell on the black market, as they force you into your own tub now filled with ice they tell you that the reason they need this is that its all they can carry and so either you or your lover will survive as all that will be taken is one kidney from this person, they ask you if A: you want to live or B: let your lover live
2. you are caught by a columbian drug cartel for having told local police that men with guns are working a field nearby. the give you the option of A: having you lips sewn shut with all of our teeth removed or B: having your tongue cut out with garden shears.
3. its the so called holy land in 5 AD, you are convicted of stealing from a temple you are told that either you will be A: crucified in front of the temple as a warning to others or B: sold to rome as a gladiator
4. you are in north western europe off the coast of what is now sweden and are suspected of being a traitor, your are given the choice of being A: put in a cauldron over a fire and boiled to death or B: forced to stand naked bound to a pole and have water poured on your head every hour, its winter and the water will freeze in layers on your skin until you die.
5. its spain during the inquisition and you are captured, again as a traitor, and given two options althought both survivable its a really tough choice, either A: have your knees destroyed using a giant thumbscrew like device (knee splitter) or B: have your feet encased in moulten lead, it solidifies (the cooper boot).
6. you are unfortunate enough to be in a fictional land were canibalism is practiced for non religious reasons and are forced to offer a body part either A: your arm is grated with a crude sharp cheese grater to collect a pound of flesh for the locals dinner or B: you can can have that pound removed by burning it off of your leg with hot coal until it simply peels off
7. you are caught up in the afghan war and are captured they give you two options, either A: they strap you up with a tamper proof bomb and send you into the local coalition base or B: you build all of their ied’s at the risk of blowing yourself up, with random testing and any failed bombs during random testing means they chop of a foot.
8. you are in ethiopia collecting samples from the sulferic acid puddles would you rather A: fall in and have every thing from the neck down burn’t to uselessness or B: have some splash up and blind you for life.
9. an american psycopath decides he’s wants to see pain, real pain, he grab you off the street no matter how tough you are…….. he straps you into a chair while your unconscious and gives you the option of A: having 500 finishing nails shot into your legs or B: having your ears and nose sliced off
10. you’re on a construction site in america somewhere, would you rather A: be crushed by a steam roller head first or B: be buried alive in a concrete pit

Usedhottubsstore answers:
You have a really sick mind to come up with all this, lol.thought about making saw movies? I would choose none.

Sandy asks…
the poll you don’t wanna take #2?
this is the second of T’s morbid polls, if you enjoy add as fan or contact to get the next batches
1. your home is invaded by three mexican mafia members they explain to you that they need 3 kidneys and a liver to sell on the black market, as they force you into your own tub now filled with ice they tell you that the reason they need this is that its all they can carry and so either you or your lover will survive as all that will be taken is one kidney from this person, they ask you if A: you want to live or B: let your lover live
2. you are caught by a columbian drug cartel for having told local police that men with guns are working a field nearby. the give you the option of A: having you lips sewn shut with all of our teeth removed or B: having your tongue cut out with garden shears.
3. its the so called holy land in 5 AD, you are convicted of stealing from a temple you are told that either you will be A: crucified in front of the temple as a warning to others or B: sold to rome as a gladiator
4. you are in north western europe off the coast of what is now sweden and are suspected of being a traitor, your are given the choice of being A: put in a cauldron over a fire and boiled to death or B: forced to stand naked bound to a pole and have water poured on your head every hour, its winter and the water will freeze in layers on your skin until you die.
5. its spain during the inquisition and you are captured, again as a traitor, and given two options althought both survivable its a really tough choice, either A: have your knees destroyed using a giant thumbscrew like device (knee splitter) or B: have your feet encased in moulten lead, it solidifies (the cooper boot).
6. you are unfortunate enough to be in a fictional land were canibalism is practiced for non religious reasons and are forced to offer a body part either A: your arm is grated with a crude sharp cheese grater to collect a pound of flesh for the locals dinner or B: you can can have that pound removed by burning it off of your leg with hot coal until it simply peels off
7. you are caught up in the afghan war and are captured they give you two options, either A: they strap you up with a tamper proof bomb and send you into the local coalition base or B: you build all of their ied’s at the risk of blowing yourself up, with random testing and any failed bombs during random testing means they chop of a foot.
8. you are in ethiopia collecting samples from the sulferic acid puddles would you rather A: fall in and have every thing from the neck down burn’t to uselessness or B: have some splash up and blind you for life.
9. an american psycopath decides he’s wants to see pain, real pain, he grab you off the street no matter how tough you are…….. he straps you into a chair while your unconscious and gives you the option of A: having 500 finishing nails shot into your legs or B: having your ears and nose sliced off
10. you’re on a construction site in america somewhere, would you rather A: be crushed by a steam roller head first or B: be buried alive in a concrete pit

Usedhottubsstore answers:
This has nothing to do with wrestling

Thomas asks…
T’s 2nd edition polls?
this is the second of T’s morbid polls, if you enjoy add as fan or contact to get the next batches
1. your home is invaded by three mexican mafia members they explain to you that they need 3 kidneys and a liver to sell on the black market, as they force you into your own tub now filled with ice they tell you that the reason they need this is that its all they can carry and so either you or your lover will survive as all that will be taken is one kidney from this person, they ask you if A: you want to live or B: let your lover live
2. you are caught by a columbian drug cartel for having told local police that men with guns are working a field nearby. the give you the option of A: having you lips sewn shut with all of our teeth removed or B: having your tongue cut out with garden shears.
3. its the so called holy land in 5 AD, you are convicted of stealing from a temple you are told that either you will be A: crucified in front of the temple as a warning to others or B: sold to rome as a gladiator
4. you are in north western europe off the coast of what is now sweden and are suspected of being a traitor, your are given the choice of being A: put in a cauldron over a fire and boiled to death or B: forced to stand naked bound to a pole and have water poured on your head every hour, its winter and the water will freeze in layers on your skin until you die.
5. its spain during the inquisition and you are captured, again as a traitor, and given two options althought both survivable its a really tough choice, either A: have your knees destroyed using a giant thumbscrew like device (knee splitter) or B: have your feet encased in moulten lead, it solidifies (the cooper boot).
6. you are unfortunate enough to be in a fictional land were canibalism is practiced for non religious reasons and are forced to offer a body part either A: your arm is grated with a crude sharp cheese grater to collect a pound of flesh for the locals dinner or B: you can can have that pound removed by burning it off of your leg with hot coal until it simply peels off
7. you are caught up in the afghan war and are captured they give you two options, either A: they strap you up with a tamper proof bomb and send you into the local coalition base or B: you build all of their ied’s at the risk of blowing yourself up, with random testing and any failed bombs during random testing means they chop of a foot.
8. you are in ethiopia collecting samples from the sulferic acid puddles would you rather A: fall in and have every thing from the neck down burn’t to uselessness or B: have some splash up and blind you for life.
9. an american psycopath decides he’s wants to see pain, real pain, he grab you off the street no matter how tough you are…….. he straps you into a chair while your unconscious and gives you the option of A: having 500 finishing nails shot into your legs or B: having your ears and nose sliced off
10. you’re on a construction site in america somewhere, would you rather A: be crushed by a steam roller head first or B: be buried alive in a concrete pit

Usedhottubsstore answers:
NO THANKS.

Ruth asks…
The second edition polls?
this is the second of T’s morbid polls, if you enjoy add as fan or contact to get the next batches
1. your home is invaded by three mexican mafia members they explain to you that they need 3 kidneys and a liver to sell on the black market, as they force you into your own tub now filled with ice they tell you that the reason they need this is that its all they can carry and so either you or your lover will survive as all that will be taken is one kidney from this person, they ask you if A: you want to live or B: let your lover live
2. you are caught by a columbian drug cartel for having told local police that men with guns are working a field nearby. the give you the option of A: having you lips sewn shut with all of our teeth removed or B: having your tongue cut out with garden shears.
3. its the so called holy land in 5 AD, you are convicted of stealing from a temple you are told that either you will be A: crucified in front of the temple as a warning to others or B: sold to rome as a gladiator
4. you are in north western europe off the coast of what is now sweden and are suspected of being a traitor, your are given the choice of being A: put in a cauldron over a fire and boiled to death or B: forced to stand naked bound to a pole and have water poured on your head every hour, its winter and the water will freeze in layers on your skin until you die.
5. its spain during the inquisition and you are captured, again as a traitor, and given two options althought both survivable its a really tough choice, either A: have your knees destroyed using a giant thumbscrew like device (knee splitter) or B: have your feet encased in moulten lead, it solidifies (the cooper boot).
6. you are unfortunate enough to be in a fictional land were canibalism is practiced for non religious reasons and are forced to offer a body part either A: your arm is grated with a crude sharp cheese grater to collect a pound of flesh for the locals dinner or B: you can can have that pound removed by burning it off of your leg with hot coal until it simply peels off
7. you are caught up in the afghan war and are captured they give you two options, either A: they strap you up with a tamper proof bomb and send you into the local coalition base or B: you build all of their ied’s at the risk of blowing yourself up, with random testing and any failed bombs during random testing means they chop of a foot.
8. you are in ethiopia collecting samples from the sulferic acid puddles would you rather A: fall in and have every thing from the neck down burn’t to uselessness or B: have some splash up and blind you for life.
9. an american psycopath decides he’s wants to see pain, real pain, he grab you off the street no matter how tough you are…….. he straps you into a chair while your unconscious and gives you the option of A: having 500 finishing nails shot into your legs or B: having your ears and nose sliced off
10. you’re on a construction site in america somewhere, would you rather A: be crushed by a steam roller head first or B: be buried alive in a concrete pit

Usedhottubsstore answers:
1. B..Id die for him..hes awesome like that
2.A. You can always get more teeth..
3.B..maybe as a chick i can get off easily..become a prostitute or
somethin..
4.B..cause mayve it wont hurt as bad..when you die from hypothermia you
just kinda go to sleep..
5.B..maybe it can be taken off
6.B.cause they bhoth suck
7.A..cause our army is smart..they can get it off!
8.B..cause again they both suck
9.a..plastic surgry may make it look beter
10.A..screw B…
how do you set automatic control on a coast hot tub?

Usedhottubsstore answers:
Need more info. Model make and year! Coast has excellent tech support too by the way and they can reached at: 1-800-363-7727
Richard asks…
Do you know of a romantic Oregon coast hotel with both a privet hot tub and fireplace?
It’s our anniversary next month and I’ve only been able to find one so far. Thanks for your time =]

Usedhottubsstore answers:
Http://www.onthebeachfront.com/
try this site and congrats on your anniversary
Lizzie asks…
Hot tub not heating?
I have a 2003 Gulf Coast hot tub. The water is not heating at all. The pump is working, the heating element is replaced, and the filter is brand new. Any other suggestions?

Usedhottubsstore answers:
There should be a temp sensing device close to the heater itself prob on the out side of the heater if its bad it wont turn on the heater some have a thermo-couple located around the same area which runs up to a t-state check for both
Betty asks…
holiday lodges with hot tubs in the UK?
Me and my boyfriend are looking for a log cabin either on the coast or
in the countryside somewhere in the UK. We have found some lovely places online with
hot tubs and lovely cabins but they are all for 4 or 6
people so we would be paying for more people than we would need to be.
has anyone ever stayed in a log cabin before in the UK and where did you rent one out?

Usedhottubsstore answers:
Hiya, I stayed with my boyfriend’s family in one of these lodges a few
Summer’s back. It’s right on the water’s edge of Loch Lomond, Scotland and there’s a hot tub
with some of them, we stayed in one with one and it was really nice! There’s a restaurant on
site and a small town just down the road, and a slightly bigger town about 15 mins away and
only 45 min drive from Glasgow city centre!Really nice! Hope that helps a bit! ![]()
Robert asks…
romantic night for two for one night only must have hot tub not spa and on the sunshine coast?

Usedhottubsstore answers:
See if http://www.noosacrest.com.au appeals to you. Luxury accommodation in Noosa, just a short walk to Hastings street & Noosa main beach. Some apartments have private spas or plunge pools. Ocean views. Or if looking for hinterland accommodation, then try Maleny. You may find it hard though to find a 1 night stay.
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